If you want to set the scene for some steamy seduction and a night of passion that will have you screaming for more there are a couple of very simple things you can do.
First of all you have to do some planning and maybe make a few purchases – there are things on the market that are proven to be wonderfully effective at getting your partner in the mood for a night of loving. My friend [let’s keep this anonymous, she wouldn’t want her lovers to know they’ve been part of an experiment] who has had great success with men in the bedroom – actually it’s been the kitchen, living room, bathroom and conservatory too – has a few little things she does to make sure the mood is right every time.
First of all – there’s personal hygiene and grooming. Secondly, there’s making sure the love nest is clean and tidy – you never know where you might suddenly be overcome by the ‘urge’ and you don’t want to be shagging on the shag pile if it stinks of dog, fags or stale pizza. Ditto for bedlinen. Secret number one…sprinkle some lust dust filled with pheromones over the sheets and spray some around the room; your partner won’t know why they feel so bloody horny and you haven’t even started anything yet. Take advantage of the wonders of nature and get the chemistry working and the electricity zapping between the pair of you. Secret number two – make sure that foreplay is interesting and fun, play some games with cards or dice that suggest sexual positions or actions…this takes the pressure off both of you as the ‘choices’ are random [though you can ‘fix’ some of them] and therefore less intimidating and allow you to be adventurous without being pushy. Secret number three – pamper your partner with some exciting warming massage oils that stimulate sensation and many of them are also edible with a variety of flavours that are bound to suit every palate; the suggestion of this is bound to lead on to exciting discoveries.
Slipping into something more comfortable that is incredibly sexy, using a scent that makes you feel confident and has allure, ticking erogenous zones with a feather while your lover is blindfold and music to glide and grind to are standard weapons you should already have in your sexual arsenal.
Where you go from there depends on your trust and daring and how well you know your lover – bondage and fetish toys might be best brought out when you know their preferences.
