Ladies first – does your partner know how to give great oral sex?
Lucky you if the answer is yes. So many of us aren’t able to answer quite so positively. Still there is hope. There are a few things you can do to make sure the idea is attractive and appealing to your partner in order to get them down there in the first place.
Excellent personal hygiene is the first thing – there are many jokes about fishy smells, Grimsby and other harbours –so make sure you don’t become the butt of one of those jokes. Clean and fresh is much more attractive than dirty and smelly I’m sure you will agree. The second thing is good grooming, a ratty looking pussy is not attractive. Many men feel better if they don’t have to cope with straggly pubes that get stuck in their mouths and interrupt the action as they withdraw from the scene to remove the annoying hair that’s interfering with the action. Get a good bikini wax that’ll clear away any possible interruptions or keep it short. Make sure there are no unsightly pustules of ingrown hairs often caused by shaving by using one of the proprietary lotions available or remove the offending ingrown hair with fine-point tweezers. Have your pussy looking pretty with maybe a stencil shaved in or dyed to make it even more attractive.
If you time it so that you come straight out of the shower or bath to your partner’s arms you’ll be wonderfully fresh and your body will be warm, pink and moist, you’ll be relaxed and confident and the heat from the bath will have caused your blood vessels to open already. All you need do now is gain your partner’s trust and one of the best ways of doing this is to start playing with yourself, get your juices flowing. There’s something of the voyeur in all of us that makes it so appealing to watch someone pleasuring themselves. Then what you need to do is dip your finger into your vagina, and oh so slowly and sexily place it in your mouth to prove it’s not poison then do it again and offer your finger to them this time.
Having presented yourself as relaxed, confident, sexy, well groomed and smelling and tasting oh so sweet there shouldn’t be anything stopping them giving you a great munch. If they want to improve their technique – just tell them what you want and how you like it and for extra information there are great guides to make sure your partner understands the biology and physics behind it all.
Buy them a book beforehand to make extra sure!
