Safe sex has to be the way responsible sexually active adults conduct their sex lives unless they are in an exclusive and monogamous relationship.
Safe sex does not have to be boring though. Even in school sex education classes pupils are taught the basics about putting on a condom so that there is no excuse for STIs or unwanted pregnancies. Perhaps it might be a step too far to show our young teenagers how to put on a condom with your mouth. Still, it’s a neat trick and you might like to know how to do it so here are the steps. As Mrs Beaton says ‘first get your rabbit’ actually in this case it’s not the rabbit we’re interested in but a condom…so first get your condom, check the air bubble and check its BB date – if it’s passed its expiration date its integrity may be compromised and therefore useless for the purpose of sexual activity. Next, (this has been easy so far, hasn’t it?) open it! Whew! Gently pinch the condom by the tip and place between the teeth so that it looks like you are blowing a bubble. Purse your lips and place them on the head of a nearby erect penis and gently roll down the length of the shaft to unravel the condom with the lips of your mouth pushing the rolled up edges. Hey presto! Condom applied orally.
Meanwhile, having mentioned a ‘rabbit’ you could bring out a little bunny to play with too – remember safe sex is sensible, not boring. A rabbit is more often than not attached to a vibrator so that the clitoris or the anus for that matter depending which way you use it can be stimulated whilst the vagina receives orgasmic attention from the vibrator. Women being capable of multiple orgasms can excite their man with a little bunny show before he does his thing – with a condom covered penis of course.
There are lots of different types of condoms to aid sensation so choose whatever takes your fancy – flavoured, textured, extra sensitive – it’s up to you and your partner.
